Making Space : Helping a Senior Downsize

This week, I had the privilege of helping one of my senior clients downsize for the second time this year. Each move has meant adjusting to a smaller space and this one came with a unique challenge right at the front door.

When I arrived at his new apartment, I immediately noticed that his dining table took up nearly the entire entranceway. It was a beautiful, well-loved piece, but far too large for the layout. Every time he came or went, he had to squeeze by. It wasn’t safe or practical, and it made the apartment feel cramped before you even stepped inside.

As a professional organizer, I often remind clients that our homes should work for us  not against us. This table had served him well for many years, but in this new home, it just didn’t fit the space. After a week of maneuvering around the table daily, he decided it was time to let it go.

We asked around and had several friends come look at and measure the table. The table was slightly too large for their spaces as well. We were about to list it on Facebook Marketplace.  One last effort to see if someone we knew wanted it and we found a home for the table. It felt great knowing the table would be appreciated in a new home, and we didn’t even have to post it online.

Once it was gone, the difference was immediate. The entrance opened up, the apartment felt larger and brighter, and most importantly, my client could move around safely and comfortably. As you can see from the picture he is not done unpacking and family photos were removed from entranceway in order for me to share this photo.

Downsizing can be an emotional process, especially when it’s not the first time. But each step each item thoughtfully rehomed creates a little more breathing room.  Also, without the table in the entrance we were able to move a small piece of furniture in its spot and display pictures which had previously been living in the bottom of a box.  

If you or someone you love is preparing for a downsizing move, remember: it’s not just about getting rid of things. It’s about shaping your space to support your current life  safely, comfortably, and intentionally.